There are very few things I enjoy more than shopping or “haggling.” Add to it the thrill of setting my own price, and I could shop for hours. On a recent trip to Istanbul, I found that my love of shopping and negotiating made the perfect combination — and taught me real estate negotiation lessons I still use with clients today. One of my many vices is my love for expensive jewelry and purses. I was amazed by the abundance of “name-brand” bags and trinkets around every corner. And with the thousands of tons of gold and various jewelry, I was in heaven. For reference, the Grand Bazaar in Istanbul offers much more than just purses and jewelry, but for this article, I’ll focus solely on the items that caught my eye. If you’ve never been to the Grand Bazaar, picture thousands of people everywhere. Spanning over 7.6 acres, it contains 61 covered streets with more than 4,000 merchants—and thousands more vendors on the outskirts. Simple tourists like me can find anything they need in this vast labyrinth, plus a million items we don’t.
The Art of Haggling
Negotiations at the Grand Bazaar begin immediately. Men are everywhere, calling out to attract attention and inviting anyone who makes eye contact to enter their shop. “The best items are inside!” I adore these shops with their bright lighting and feast of trinkets of all sizes. I can’t get enough of the colors, textures, baubles, cookware, and textiles. My eyes were in constant motion. Once inside a small shop, I inevitably found something that caught my interest. This drew in one to four salesmen, encouraging me to try it on, look in the mirror, and assuring me of their top quality and pricing. I would have loved to browse freely, but sharing a 10-square-foot space with my cousin and a few salesmen quickly created a pressure-cooker environment. We learned to take our time, avoid responding to every inquiry, and take control of the transaction as quickly as possible. Taking control of an age-old pricing battle is never easy. Having lived in Europe, I’ve spent hundreds of hours negotiating prices. I rarely engage with a salesman on price unless I’m serious about the item. Each time my gaze lingered on something, the salesman was quick to offer to take it down, open it up, or let me try it on. Obsessed with speed and efficiency, I tried to ignore these offers unless I liked the item. Once an item was in my hands, the price appeared—along with comments on quality, compliments about how it suited me, and assurances that I wouldn’t find a better selection anywhere else. It was a full-court press. On the few occasions my cousin and I showed enough interest to buy something, my favorite part began: haggling. The Turks take great pride in this part of the process, often offering a chair and something to drink. I adore Turkish apple tea, so I often accepted a cup, settling in to enjoy the process of proving I wasn’t as gullible as I looked. Negotiating in the Grand Bazaar is more like a dance—a true art form.
Always Negotiate in Real Estate
I only made the mistake of stating the initial price once, and I instantly regretted it. Naming a price in dollars was a mistake, which my counterpart greeted with a smile. I knew I’d lost when he immediately agreed. The dance ended just as it began. I left the shop with only a minor loss, but I take losses personally and learn from every skirmish. At the time of my visit, each American dollar was worth 36 Turkish Lira. My cousin Christy and I spent the entire day with our calculators on, and I noticed pricing was generally lower when I kept the negotiation in Lira, cringing for dramatic effect. Typically, I’d ask the shopkeeper to name their price, then cringe or fake a heart attack. With neither of us fluent in the other’s language, these physical cues were crucial to the negotiation. By round three or four, the shopkeeper would gesture wildly, insisting he’d lose money and his children would go hungry. Then, within a few minutes, he’d concede, saying, “Only for you, lady. I’m selling it to you for less than I paid…” I didn’t believe a word of it, but I’ve never had so much fun feigning poverty and heart attacks every few shops. The best negotiation tactic by far was simply walking away. Vendors know that if we leave, we rarely come back. This final step usually occurred when we couldn’t agree on a price. Often, just putting on my backpack and heading for the door would prompt a better offer, though not always. I’d inspect an item, find a small flaw, and offer 50% of the price. Unless I really wanted something, I’d typically pay between 30–50% of the original price. Sometimes, I walked away and found another vendor a few shops down who offered the same item for my price. One day, I became obsessed with small hand-painted finger bowls, perfect souvenirs for friends and coworkers in Savannah. I knew I had options, so I set my price at 200 Lira (about $5.55). When the vendor couldn’t meet my offer, I walked away, later finding a large selection of finger bowls for 200 Lira—and others for 60 Lira, less than $2 each. I was thrilled, and my backpack filled with pottery as I shared my victory with my cousin.
How Haggling Relates to Real Estate Negotiation
Reflecting on my day of wins and losses, I can’t help but see connections to my job in real estate. As a buyer’s agent, my main job is to secure the best price for my client. When I’m on the sales side, my role shifts to persuading buyers to pay the highest possible price for the property. Real estate agents employ similar tactics: shock, disgust, pleas, and the art of walking away. Working with real estate investors is especially rewarding because they hold the power to walk away from a transaction. Investors are rarely desperate—they won’t be homeless or forced into a subpar school district if a deal falls through. They can simply say, “Take my price, or I’ll buy elsewhere.” In nearly every negotiation, the person with the most power is the one who cares the least. I can’t wait to return to the Bazaar. For now, I’ll use my skills to buy and sell cash-flowing real estate in Savannah. If I get another chance to visit the Bazaar, I’ll be ready for the challenge. Whether negotiating in Savannah or Istanbul, I always have my calculator on hand. No matter how much I or my client is spending, I’m only interested in good deals.
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